I just LOVE anger in Law of Attraction work! Now, why would anyone love anger?
Because for a conscious person, the feeling of anger is an important messenger! Anger tells us so much about how we are really feeling AND about what we are creating via the law of attraction.
And tapping for your anger will truly lead you to the biggest breakthroughs!
First you have to understand why we get angry. I can tell you exactly why you have been angry every time in your life. It was because something seemed UNFAIR to either you or someone you love. Anger is always a sense of unfairness and it always feels justified. Yes, even when we feel guilty about carrying the anger, there’s that little voice that says, “But, I am right!”
Many well-meaning people tell us not to be angry, to “get over it” and often we are told we are “supposed to forgive”. That sounds good, but it’s not that easy to really let go and forgive while anger is still stuck. This is why we can tell the same story to 10 people and get worked up each time. It is especially difficult to let go of anger when the person treating us unfairly isn’t sorry or when it feels like we have no power in the situation.
If you let it speak, your anger is always saying “this feels so unfair, I was wronged!” Try changing the word from anger to outrage and be outraged for yourself…and start tapping and voicing it! Outrage is a big rising energy that will move and release and fill you with the readiness to make a change!
This is raw, life force energy that will remind you of something very important that I find FANTASTIC!
If you are willing to tap and “rant”, in that tirade of voicing “this is unfair”, the next sentence is logically, “and I deserve better!” This is the good stuff! Your anger is reminding you that YOU DESERVE BETTER!
So when we tap on anger we honor the anger because truly it is honoring us! It is the part of you that truly and congruently believes you deserve better! This part is not often heard over the Inner Critic that always says, “I don’t deserve yet, cause I am not perfect!”
And btw, it feels pretty great to just really rant and complain loudly, for once, while knowing that the tapping is actually clearing and healing! Not only will your anger come down and bring a feeling of empowerment, but your inner feeling of deserving will skyrocket!
A phenomenon I see all the time with tapping and voicing anger is that someone who has played it small or can’t set boundaries, will come to a new level of feeling worthy and deserving. Suddenly, they will find themselves more annoyed at the negative people or situations in their life!
That’s how we know it is working! The crappy things in their life they used to accept suddenly trigger some anger that says, “HEY, I deserve better!” And with that rise in energy, they can set a boundary, make a change, take step up! HOORAY!
When we honor and raise our deserving, the universe will respond instantly and deliver to us new results in our life that match our new higher level of deserving. It does not wait! Honor and move anger and miracles occur, new evidence shows up that resonates with your new higher level of deserving. I LOVE that kind of evidence!
So I LOVE ANGER because it points us SO clearly in the direction of how to massively increase our abundance! We all know exactly what we are angry about, what feels unfair to us, and now we know the HUGE upside of honoring that outrage for ourselves and moving beyond it.
And it’s not just me! According to my fiancé Rhys Thomas, of the Rhys Thomas Institute of Energy Medicine, anger is considered the most important emotion in the eastern philosophies because it frees the self from feeling stuck!
Rhys says, “Anger properly channeled is the energy to transform your life.” Wow, that is a new angle…and I couldn’t AGREE more!
So get out there and tap and RANT on that anger and everything that feels unfair! Really get nasty! As the anger moves and clears, you will feel a more balanced perspective. Now you can ask yourself this important question, “What is all this anger calling me to do in my life right now?”
Just as importantly, notice how much energy is flowing through your body due to all that anger-tapping. This is the energy you need to put your foot down or set boundary or take a huge step up – to take the action you need to take to transform your life!
Yes, Margaret, I agree that anger can be a great motivator. But how exactly does one “tap” it?
Thanks … Kate
I liked what you said. I didn’t have that feeling or viewpoint about anger. Anger’s characteristic is to STOP. In the positive sense that would be good to be angry.
I come in contact with so many people who use anger as a negative emotion, and that is why I shied away from it. The reason is an anger person does not tell the truth, he lies. Even when not angry they put stops on someone who wants to be positive. Like, “you can’t do that, you can’t have that and you can’t be that.” That is the negative side of it. The positive side would be one who is conscious of there their thoughts, actions and what they want to achieve with anger. They are pro-survival.
With my situation, I’ve been in a rut for so long and am uncomfortable with it. This has to do with money. One can not create without it. This universe is based around a monetary system, especially here on earth. One needs money to move forward. Now having this viewpoint, that anger is okay, I now can have it.
Thanks for the tip.
Kent
Aloha! I so Love this post! Makes *great* sense! It is so wonderful to honor the loving intention of the anger. And . . . in my experience (both with myself & with my clients who have experienced severe childhood trauma), the anger can seem like a bottomless pit –there is just sooo much rage, it keeps on & on. I wonder if anyone has suggestions for this situation? Mahalo (thank you!) Ano’ai kou alahele (may your way be blessed). ♡ *•.¸¸☼ *•.¸¸ .•*
great post- very true- anger builds up on the inside and causes problems on the outside – it is a true source of emotional energy exploding and being redirected. Anger is emotionally right. It has its good reason for being so. it also stores up in the subconscious mind and stays remembered there. like you said acknowledge it – thank it -find out the reason and what is trying to tell you to do about it. tap it down and release it and come ahead on top in the positive.
Margaret,
I’ve followed you for several years now because I feel your honesty. Oh, thank you for this release!
This is so true, Anger can be really lifechanging, properly channelled, of course.
Worked for me; not exactly tapping (I haven´t heart about this at the time), but beeing angry, outraged, and praying, begging and demmandig was so powerful and quite fast, and precise, beyond any expectation.
Margaret, thank you so much! It`s awesome point of view!
Yes, please give us some examples of how to tap on this. I’ve been following you for ages and although I have loved many of your writings, I have honestly not been doing most of the tapping for one reason or another. The timeliness of this post is absolutely uncanny. This is EXACTLY what my problem has been for a very long time (I am actually a generally happy and easy-going person, but truly inside, there is a lot of anger over some things from my life and I can see now from reading this, that it is exactly what has been holding me back.)
So please Margaret, could you give us some of your wonderful examples of how to tap on this issue? I believe it underlies SO many other issues that we could all have some very amazing releases because of this! Thank you so much for your work and all that you share with us. You are an inspiration!
I keep learning so much from you .
My networking and offering CSA is working great
Best,
Eve Keith
For those of you asking for how to tap on anger, there´s a post about 5 or so blog posts back (click on “previous” above) that has a script.